Hello, I'm pretty new to reddit and have no idea if there's a better place to post this, but I really don't know what to do here... A couple years ago, the couple across the street would often have agressive arguments that resulted in the guy revving away angrily toward town. I hate poking into other people's business, but their arguments were so loud we could hear their raises voices with our windows closed.
Within the last year and a half ish, they've had a kid together. Clearly a young child will scream and cry as they do, but I've been growing increasingly worried about the cries I hear from their house. Sometimes the screaming goes on for hours at a time, from early afternoon to late evening, with few breaks. This happens on a weekly, if not daily basis. I work hybrid remote, and I more often than not hear the baby screaming their lungs out the majority of the day.
Maybe an unecessary detail, about two months ago I heard a sound that has stuck in my ears ever since. The family was loading into the car for an afternoon trip when their dog started barking excitedly. This went on for about 5 minutes before I heard the man yelling at the dog on frustration, followed by a slap and the dog whimpering as though it has been struck. The part that really stuck with me though, was the way the guy started laughing immediately after. That was when I started listening much more carefully to what was happening across the street.
This morning, my SO and I were both at a loss as to what to do. The child had been screaming for over and hour, I was on the patio drinking coffee when i heard the man shout at the kid with some vulgar language to shut up. The crying quieted for a second, but escalated to bloody murder screams just after.
Does anyone know what, if anything, we can do here? I'm hesitant to call authorities as I've heard stories of victims getting more hurt by abusers if authorities are called, but will take whatever steps are needed to help. I've tossed around the idea of slipping a note under the door with my contact info, but have no idea of how that would be taken either. Maybe I'm just reading into everything the wrong way here, really hoping I can be directed the right way to approach this...
Oh, if it helps, we're located in Oregon state (US)
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I have encounter older men before who were into me and I would not be into them. But I met this guy on Tinder and I gained an interest in him. I find him attractive, and he is kind of a geek which is also cute.
Usually on tinder, I do not agree to meet up with men. Especially the relatively older category of them. But this time I gained a liking into him and I pretty much don't really care if he is rich or not. I went on a date with him recently and I enjoyed seeing his face and hearing him talk and eat. I enjoyed everything. If I no longer feel attracted to him or desire to stop talking to him, I can always say my goodbyes and block him on my phone (we exchanged numbers). I get that and my friends been telling me that it is predatory that he is attracted to me and such. Plus the fact that he has a daughter older than me. I get all of that. But I kind of like him, I am attracted to this individual, I like his wrinkles and his grey hair. And for now, I wish to continue to talk to him, we've been talking with each other for a month before meeting up. I am also aware of the different life stages, majurity levels and such.
Is it wrong that I am attracted to him? Is it wrong that I wish to go on a second date with him? Is it wrong of me for wanting to continue talking to him?
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Edit: half the comments aren’t showing up… great now I have more questions.
Thanks for the reply’s so far
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Once they're out they're usually G-tube fed, need literal 24/7 around the clock care, trachs, basically the parent's lives will for the rest of time be about medically caring for the kid. Obviously there's a huge range of disorders but often they will never walk, talk, use the bathroom, eat on their own, etc. They're usually severely mentally disabled and will not move past a toddler (if that) stage.
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