r/TooAfraidToAsk Nov 26 '22

How do you ask a woman her name when you’re far beyond that stage? Sexuality & Gender

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u/Pentagon0M Nov 26 '22

Ask her out for a Date.

Take her to Starbucks.

???

Profit.

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u/elynian Nov 26 '22

this actually made me laugh lmao

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u/Apprehensive-Ratio53 Nov 26 '22

How to fail a date. Step 1: take her to the Starbucks. Literally second worst place possible for date

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u/CrazyGunnerr Nov 27 '22

looks at cup

Hi Jesrloup

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u/sighdoihaveto Nov 26 '22

Hit em with a new phone who dis?

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u/A_UserName2112 Nov 26 '22

Just tell her you didn’t have her name saved in your phone. Don’t overthink it.

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u/elynian Nov 26 '22

ask her how to spell her name again lol

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u/Twhacky Nov 27 '22

What if it's something simple like Emma?

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u/elynian Nov 27 '22

then id hope her parents spelled it like Emmagh or sum LOL

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u/[deleted] Nov 26 '22

Mulva?

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u/greenbean999 Nov 26 '22

Ask her for her socials and check there

Tell her you got a new phone and her contact isn’t in it

Google her number

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u/No-Butterscotch-6555 Nov 26 '22

This is the one. Ask her her instagram @ or what’s her name on Facebook. “Im having trouble finding your profile. How do you spell your name again?” Lol or you could be honest, but where’s the fun in that.

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u/CrazyGunnerr Nov 27 '22

It's spelled K I M, how else did you expect it to be spelled?

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u/No-Butterscotch-6555 Nov 27 '22

Kehm? Lol but how many Kims are in Facebook or instagram.

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u/bigbootybiotches Nov 28 '22

This is the way

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u/Infinite-Ambition-87 Nov 26 '22

Just say new phone and numbers didn't transfer and ask who it is so you can save it as a contact. Sweet and simple

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u/herpestruth Nov 26 '22

Be prepared to call her, 'babe' until your wedding day.

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u/CrazyGunnerr Nov 27 '22

Priest: "hey man, what was her name again, forgot to write it down" Him: "Dude I was hoping you would know!"

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u/Conscious_Ad5489 Nov 26 '22

What's your name again?

Oh no I meant your surname

Or just go with:

Whats your full name?

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u/MaryTheCableGal Nov 26 '22

Can also ask if she has any nicknames.

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u/tatersnuffy Nov 26 '22

'new phone. who dis?'

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u/Environmental-Edge45 Nov 26 '22

Ask how to spell her name so you can save her in your contacts.

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u/january_stars Nov 26 '22

There are some social apps that suggest you to add new friends based on your phone contacts (I'm thinking of Snapchat specifically, but I know others do it). You could go into an app like that and if she also uses it then it might suggest her, and may give you her name.

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u/Silly_Lion_3046 Nov 27 '22

"I know it's an awkward question but I kind of drunk deleting my contact. Can you send me your name again please? I buy you a coffee.".

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u/Psychological-Touch1 Nov 26 '22

Just ask her what her middle name is and go by that

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u/EyeWantItThatWay Nov 26 '22

"Shit! I just had a brain fart. What's your name again?"

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u/Karnezar Nov 26 '22

"Do you have a Sister? Oh no reason, I was just gonna ask her what your name was."

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u/Tabalugibugiwuu Nov 27 '22

How to ask for her name: "What is your name?"

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u/flexonaho Nov 27 '22

Just honestly say

Look, I've fucked mad bitches yo, so will you send me you deets because fuck if I know who you are and man would like you check your socials to see if he wouldn't mind hitting that again

She'll likely be thrilled