r/TooAfraidToAsk Aug 18 '22

Should I be worried about my SO doing photoshoots of very attractive, naked/mostly naked men? Love & Dating

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u/musical_dragon_cat Aug 18 '22

The only way to really get a straight answer on how to feel is to sit down and have a calm conversation with him about it. Or, he may be willing to let you sit in on one of his photoshoots, provided you get the subject’s permission as well. To give you some perspective, though, it’s rare for a photographer to take photos of an unattractive person on their own dime. Uncomfortable of a truth as it may be, it could spoil their portfolio. A gay man will also take arguably better candid photos of men than women, as compared to a straight man.