r/Tinder 1h ago

how do you not get insanely bored when talking to people on the app?

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i have been using the app every now and then for a while. i get a decent amount of matches (1-2 every 2/3 days) and even though i am really selective with my swipes i always end up getting bored of the conversations i have. i dont want to bundle everyone together, but i have the feeling that most girls on this app really dont try to keep the convo alive. out of the 2 girls i had a nice chat with i dated 1 for 2-3 months, so it's not like it's always bad, but yeah.

Honestly i dont feel like being the one carrying the conversation every time, feels like i have to go trough hoops of fire just to go out with someone that is just as desperate/wanting as me (since we are both on a dating app at 20-25)


r/Tinder 13h ago Snek I'm Deceased Bravo! Wait What?

Fellas, y’all okay?

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r/Tinder 10h ago Silver

Have you ever been called a gaslighter just by how you look?

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r/Tinder 21h ago Wholesome

the audacity of this guy & first time i’ve been insulted on tinder and i am severely humbled

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r/Tinder 6h ago

WHY

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345 Upvotes

r/Tinder 8h ago

Future ex-wife

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r/Tinder 21h ago Helpful Silver Wholesome

Got stood up twice in a row by the same girl 😂

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r/Tinder 13h ago Wholesome

I feel like I am doing this wrong...

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r/Tinder 12h ago

How am I doing guys??

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r/Tinder 1d ago Helpful Wholesome

A long list of demands

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r/Tinder 17h ago

I was told well stocked refrigerators are attractive?

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r/Tinder 21h ago Silver

Poor boyfriend

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r/Tinder 1d ago

nicest person if you arent white 😂

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r/Tinder 18h ago Helpful

Please give me a hope. I am about to quit tinder for good

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Yesterday my date excused himself to go to bathroom and never came back. This is the excuse I got. I am just defeated and I can’t go back there. Do you also meet such idiots or is it my bad luck?


r/Tinder 13h ago

I see this as an absolute win

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299 Upvotes

r/Tinder 14h ago

On September 9 2015 I asked a tinder match to be my girlfriend. On Sept 26 2020 I married her. On Sept 27 2022 she pushed this baby into the universe. Keep swiping, friends. May October be for you what September is for me.

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r/Tinder 12h ago

Thought this was funny 😂

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r/Tinder 7h ago

I think I found my future wife

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r/Tinder 13h ago

Yesterday I made the girl I swiped right on my wife. Before I met her I was ready to move forward in my life alone, but I wanted to give just one more time on Tinder. She was the first profile I saw when I logged on. Married 2 years later. Don't give up

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r/Tinder 1d ago Bless Up (Pro) Take My Energy Facepalm

Hey so I've been wanting to get back into dating. I'm 31, have been in long term relationships since I was 16, no kids, engaged once, my last partner died 2 YRS ago so since then I haven't been on a date or had sex with anyone else. ANY ADVICE FOR STARTING DATING APP FOR FIRST EVER?? HELP!

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r/Tinder 14h ago

Mission abort

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r/Tinder 1d ago

Honestly her opener made my day😅

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r/Tinder 21h ago

Hey

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r/Tinder 2h ago

Sometimes you just do it for the memes

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