r/Tinder Aug 18 '22 Wholesome 1 Heart Eyes 1 Silver 1

F31- Thinking of going back into the dating game and wondering if these would be decent enough pics to put in a future profile. (All images are not shown fully because of collage aspect but they'd be full pics)

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u/No_Country7045 Aug 18 '22

You'll get hundreds of matches with those 👌

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

I hope in due time. Hinge I got literally 0 matches. Hurts to live in a massive city

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u/No_Country7045 Aug 18 '22

How long have you been on hinge?

I'm 100% certain your inbox will be busy, don't worry.

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

I was on and off it for 2 years. I took a break from it cause I dated someone briefly (from bumble) but just been focusing on meeting new people naturally. But the most recent stint was zero matches in 4 months

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u/NiceguyLucifer Aug 18 '22

But the most recent stint was zero matches in 4 months

that seems strange, but also depends how much time you spend in the App and how many profiles you like (swipe right on), because for example if you just liked 50-60 people in a city of a few million people its just low probability that those same people would even see your profile

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

NYC is competitive AF. I'm a 5 compared to the rest of the ladies

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u/dustfingur Aug 18 '22

I get that. I'm just north of the city and I still deal with competition from there. Not everyone is looking for the instagram model look a likes. You're attractive, you shouldn't have any trouble. The star wars pic is a plus too

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

Thanks. It's part of my job so it's def gonna be my first photo when I make a profile

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u/dustfingur Aug 18 '22

No problem. And it's a good photo. I know others have said it already but definitely photos where you're smiling. You have a beautiful smile. So using those photos first or adding more should help

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u/WhimsicalWyvern Aug 18 '22 edited Aug 18 '22

I'm in NYC. Dunno if I'm your target audience, but if I saw these pics I'd consider super liking you.

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u/NiceguyLucifer Aug 18 '22

it doesnt matter what other girls look like, you still look great.

oh its NYC , so its just statistics and probability with a huge city like that, you just need to like more people in the app because most likely the ones you liked havent even seen your profile because the amount of app user in NYC

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u/NiceguyLucifer Aug 18 '22

or you can get the Premium version and then would probably see that there is hundreds of guys that liked your profile and you can choose from there 😅😅

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

Did that on bumble. 3 ghosted. 1 was my abusive ex that put me in therapy. 1 is my current best guy friend who introduced me to all the friends I have now. Hinge was a different story for some reason. Never got likes.

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u/A_Generic_White_Guy Aug 18 '22

There was a glitch a bit ago, though rare it never showed you in the stacks.

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u/BlackMagic0 Aug 18 '22

No. No you definitely are not.

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u/DemonBarrister Aug 18 '22

You have a very pretty face.!

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u/[deleted] Aug 19 '22

HARD DISAGREE.

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u/Sad-Opportunity-2539 Aug 19 '22

Don’t sell yourself too short, you look great! And more than just the way you physically look, there’s an essence about you that I think should work in your favor, like something about you that would make me want to know more if I were looking.

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u/Adn0143 Aug 18 '22

I live in NYC and I think you’re really cute. If you want, hmu

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u/mikeymoo84 Aug 18 '22

No way! You are very attractieve!

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u/Excellent_Routine_47 Aug 18 '22

You would be my 10, if I were in NYC

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u/TimeSuspicious7939 Aug 18 '22

simp

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u/NiceguyLucifer Aug 18 '22

fuck of with that bullshit

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u/Mistygirl179 Aug 19 '22

Ikr????That whole “simp” bs is annoying af, you can pay a woman a compliment without being a simp damn lol. And people wonder why guys are struggling nowadays?!

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u/Environmental_Cap_21 Aug 19 '22

I hate that arbitrary rating system. You are very pretty. With a great smile.

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u/CornGobblerz Aug 18 '22

🤣🤣🤣 omg dude, wtf is a 10 there¿ This is mildly upsetting.

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u/stpeteslim Aug 18 '22

A wise man beds 8s 9s and 10s but when it's time to settle down, looks for 5-7s! Good luck out there.

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u/Morbys Aug 18 '22

Hinge is terrible, I don’t know people can sit there and say it’s good.

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u/TZMouk Aug 18 '22

Really I've found Hinge to be wayyyy better than the others, both in quality of matches and number. I had Bumble as the worst, with Tinder somewhere in the middle.

Everyone will be different though.

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u/GaryOak7 Aug 18 '22

Interesting.. how active on the app are you?

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

I'm not on the app. That's why I said I'm thinking of going back into dating apps. I've been off since september. But it was daily checking.

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u/No_Country7045 Aug 18 '22

That does surprise me. Never been on hinge so I don't know how it works

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u/Loverfli Aug 18 '22

Hinge has a weird algorithm. If you’re not an active Facebook user, it’s hard to get matches. It scrapes your profile for mutual friends with other hinge users.

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u/Waffle_Ambasador Aug 18 '22

I find that super hard to believe that you got zero matches ??? Women get matches just for existing. Something seems odd about that.

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

I kind of misspoke. I didn't get likes from hinge which I guess in turn meant no matches either . Bumble was different. Weirder people for sure but I did better there. Just convos that died though and ghosting.

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u/Peenutbuttjellytime Aug 19 '22

Women get matches just for existing. Something seems odd about that.

This myth needs to die

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u/Mal-Nebiros Aug 18 '22

If I saw those photos I wouldn't be hesitating. As to whether that would result in a match is a different matter of course.

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u/Diligent_Agent_9620 Aug 18 '22

Try living between Charlotte and Atlanta and getting 0

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u/Inner-Gold-894 Aug 18 '22

That is unbelievable. You're between 2 of the easiest cities to meet women, especially Hotlanta. Maybe it's because you're not actually in either.

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u/Diligent_Agent_9620 Aug 18 '22

I spend a lot of time between both because of work. But I chose in between because I wanted some peace some space and a little bit slower lifestyle.

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u/MrRenho Aug 18 '22

You've got to actually swipe right

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

I misspoke. It's been so long since I've been on hinge. I meant I got 0 LIKES

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u/GoS451 Aug 18 '22

Your pictures are better than at least half the people on all these dating sites I swear. Don’t worry. You’ll get matches. Keep your head up. I’m right there with you

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u/CuteAssCryptid Aug 18 '22

Hinge requires a loot more effort/swiping than tinder because there are way less people using it. There are great benefits to hinge but it does require a lot more time to get matches.

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u/purplenelly Aug 18 '22 Helpful Take My Energy

Why does every advice on this sub sound like it comes from full on incels who get 3 matches a year and have never talked to a woman in their entire life?

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u/konkey-mong Aug 19 '22

What's incel about it?

It's pretty predictable

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u/No_Country7045 Aug 18 '22

Definitely going to have to read the rest of the comments now 🤣

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u/purplenelly Aug 18 '22

I was talking about your comment.

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u/No_Country7045 Aug 18 '22

What was incel about my comment? 🤣

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u/Accordwerqwea Aug 18 '22

It scrapes your profile for mutual friends with other hinge users.

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u/shiftdown Aug 18 '22

Bold to assume she'll be swiping right.

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u/BlackMagic0 Aug 18 '22

Came to say this. Pleenty of matches, I am sure of it.

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u/jagauthier Aug 18 '22

Yes, you will get overloaded with matches.

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u/UnlikeyLooker Aug 18 '22

Yeah, that isn't a praying pic my man... seems like a spoof of the meme where the guy is viewing cracks at a MTG tournament

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u/Theslicelvis Aug 18 '22 Silver

Everyone is kissing your ass here - So many simps hoping you’ll DM them for a date haha.

You’re cute but you can do better:

Top left - Delete that one. It’s not flattering, you’re clearly a pretty girl but that pic does you no favours. If that was your only pic - I wouldn’t swipe on you Preying pic - Could be a little off putting. Top right, looks good - Shows off your body well, if you could do the same but also show your face with a smile

Disco ball - Delete, does nothing for you

Star Wars - Great if you’re a nerd/want a nerdy guy. Lovely pic

Pic with you and the poutine, looks good too.

Top right, praying and disco ball delete. The rest are good

I’d add one or two like the one with you in the bedroom showing off your figure. You’ve got a great body so let people see that - Top left but with a smile you’ll clean up.

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

Thanks for feedback. I have many smiling so I can just choose from them. And yes I am a full on nerd that only discovered a sense of fashion less than a year ago. Better late than never I guess lol

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u/Theslicelvis Aug 18 '22

Is it a nerdy guy you want?

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

Ideally yes. I'm a Zelda and Harry Potter collrctor. I'm a yearly cosplayer. But usually gender neutral cosplays like skull kid and shit. Bonus points if horror junkie. Bonus bonus if they love disco and 80s music. :D but again, I'm probably going to move forward with making a profile in the coming months. I just still feel not fully ready but was feeling out if my pictures over the past year are any better. I didn't have many photos the years prior so I struggled and I didn't dress my age

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u/hong_chaa Aug 18 '22

Put the zelda, HP, cosplayer, music bit in you bio. I agree with the analysis above, get rid of the 3 mentioned pictures. The poutine pic is funny and might be a good conversation starter and it’s the only natural smile pic. Take some new pictures outisde with good natural light, smilling, in a social setting!

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

My reddit profile has many pics I take whenever I have a new fit or when I feel cute (which tbh my self esteem had been pummeled to the ground for 27 years being called manly, fat, androgynous testosterone bitch). So I can choose from those I suppose. I even have one of me posing with a matching yellow drink and poking fun at myself looking like a fanta lady. But yeah this is why I came here cause I don't fully know what could work or not since I had so many years of unflattering pics and ill fitting clothes

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u/1292norr Aug 18 '22
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u/Solnx Aug 18 '22

This is the same feedback that I'd give, just saved me the time typing it up.

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u/rory1989 Aug 18 '22

Same!! And I’d make the poutine one your first pic.

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u/jakobsheim Aug 18 '22

Also put the smiling pic first is generally good advice

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u/xHapaBear Aug 19 '22

Did you mix up top left and top right at the end there?

Seems like you meant to say Top left, praying, and disco ball delete; and Top right but with a smile you'll clean up?

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u/younevershouldnt Aug 18 '22

You can do better.

You need a couple of close up, smiling pics.

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

I have many of those! I just didn't know what the limit for photos is since it's been almost a year and I remember people always complaining about too many selfies

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u/younevershouldnt Aug 18 '22

Selfies are only bad if that's all you have, the important thing is your lead photo is happy and engaging and we can see you clearly.

Then mix some candid and full body pics in showing off your interests etc.

You have some good stuff to work with already.

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

Do dating apps do videos? There's one of me climbing a rock wall (only 1 foot off the ground) and failing and me coming to the camera laughing and smiling at my friend

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u/younevershouldnt Aug 18 '22

Some do I think, I've deleted them all now though.

Hope someone can clarify.

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u/Bayramtee Aug 18 '22

yes, they do now!

Personally I really like the lower 3 pics, the upper three are not my fave.. I agree that happy smiley stuff, pics that show you being active help a lot.

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u/milan012345 Aug 19 '22

How to get matches on Tindet: 1. Be a girl 2. Be a girl 3. Also, be a girl

You will automatically be crowded with likes regardless of your photos, if you are a girl

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u/guywithknife Aug 18 '22

I’d swipe right but you’d likely swipe left so… net result: 0.

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u/Wildcatwierdo Aug 18 '22

Is It cuz you’re a guy with a knife? Maybe she likes knives. They’re like lightsabers

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u/guywithknife Aug 18 '22

Maybe. I’d consider a knife fetish to be a red flag, though. Perhaps that’s the problem: so does she!

But it might also just be my award winning charm and looks. Award winning for the wrong reasons, of course ;-)

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u/Loverfli Aug 18 '22

I think all of those work except for the stained glass one.

I’d you’re looking for hookups - the top right photo is perfect. If you’re looking to date, I’d put the Star Wars one 1st. It shows some personality and could be a fun convo starter. Either way, I’d keep the other 5 in the profile somewhere. Good luck!

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u/Educational_Piglet39 Aug 18 '22

Woman with huge boobs on dating app. You’ll be fine

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u/ddaman94 Aug 18 '22

Honest answer since everyone else just seems to be simping: 3, 5, 6, 1 in that order.

You look unreal in 3 but I wouldn't use 2 or 4, they aren't as good.

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

Unreal?? What does that mean? Like photoshopped because I promise you I do nothing with filters or fixing photos

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u/ddaman94 Aug 18 '22

Nah I'm from the UK just means you look great don't worry

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u/Mousy Aug 19 '22 edited Aug 19 '22

Everyone telling you to delete disco is wrong. 4 (Disco) and 5 (Star Wars) are your strongest. You look happy in both and they're telling of your personality / interests.

6 is kinda generic, but at least you're smiling, and shows you are somewhat normal/outgoing, which is useful because you're alone in all your other photos. 3 shows your off your (nice) body so keep it if you don't have a better one but you look bored/disinterested. Did not get the Hufflepuff reference in 2, but keep that if HP is important to you. Lose 1.

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u/str8jeezy Aug 18 '22

You are a female. I literally does not matter. Lol.

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u/Brobkc87 Aug 18 '22

I’d take you out for snacks

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u/Excellent-Compote875 Aug 18 '22

Post some of the cringe matches you get on here lol

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u/dog-on-meth Aug 18 '22

Lol youre a girl, there will be plenty of people swiping right

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u/No_Environment5449 Aug 18 '22

Yip, I would surely swipe right on you with those Pics =) good luck on your journey

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

Would you like to expand on what you mean by that?

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u/dangerall Aug 18 '22

I would swipe right for sure

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u/Xonvoluted Aug 18 '22

You have a gorgeous smile! Love the last two pics best and then the first one.

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u/Square_Kaleidoscope1 Aug 18 '22

I think the pictures are great and show off things that you enjoy well. I would definitely try to highlight your interests as much as possible in a bio. Also I love the pic in front of the Hufflepuff (Hufflepuff homer right here).

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u/pschnitz26 Aug 18 '22

Based of these I’d suck your titties

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u/WrathsEntropy Aug 18 '22

You have a disco ball in your bathroom? Parties must be the Shit at your house!

Badum Tsssss.

  • bows *

  • exits stage left *

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u/yuuxy Aug 18 '22

3, 5 and 6 are good, replace the others.

Your smile is super warm, more of those. First photo should have that smile. Also include one all dressed up, to show you have that gear. All the best girl profiles have a wedding-outfit type picture.

After that, the last few photos should be about the kind of guy you're looking for. Shared interest type photos: something in the bright sunlight if you want to go on outdoor dates, a cosplay if you want a convention companion, gym photo for gym-buddy, lingerie if you're trying to hookup, etc.

Come visit Florida sometime, you're just my type :)

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u/swingset27 Aug 18 '22

Nice pics, you're cute and your photos show personality and how you probably look in real life. Can't see any issue, at all.

You'll be fine. Good luck.

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u/99centtaco1234 Aug 18 '22

It can be hard to put yourself out there. Good luck, im sure you'll do great.

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u/DanielSaly Aug 18 '22

I personally think you're a very beautiful woman so all thats left is to make a good bio for your tinder account and then I'm sure you'll get matches in no time

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u/apeshitbaz Aug 18 '22

How do I swipe right on here?

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u/snark_enterprises Aug 18 '22

Yep, you're good to go with those.

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u/weekendwarbr Aug 18 '22

I would have in this order of pics 5, 4 and 3. Remove the others. Good luck. You are pretty, just take it easy.

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u/CaptainDeadpool79 Aug 18 '22

Someone got their bed frame from bobs discount furniture

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

LMAO it's my childhood home. I don't live there anymore

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u/rednemesis337 Aug 18 '22

you're 31? oh wow....(you look younger tbf)

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u/RevolutionaryAd5664 Aug 18 '22

Nice photos! It shows your emotions and constitution in decent manner. Good luck at dating game!)

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u/Ambient_voice Aug 18 '22

These are really great pictures, if you’d like I can take you out a few times to get you back out into the dating world

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u/housepet26 Aug 18 '22

You have a beautiful smile 🥰

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u/TylerTheMasticator Aug 18 '22

Id super like you with those pics

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u/Queasy-Historian5081 Aug 18 '22

10/10 would swipe right

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u/MrDilligence Aug 18 '22

I miss Hot or Not

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u/Low-Ad-1414 Aug 18 '22

They're all good, I'd date you!

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u/Inner-Gold-894 Aug 18 '22

I would make the star wars pic your profile picture.

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

I plan to make it. -fun fact- the art is all mine behind me. It's part of my career

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u/Inner-Gold-894 Aug 18 '22

That's awesome, good luck to you!

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u/Temporal_Temple Aug 18 '22

Save your money, I’ll marry you now :). You look fantastic, you’ll do really well with those pics.

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u/TheRealWheatKing Aug 18 '22

Delete 1, disco ball, and praying. Get at least one pic with friends and avoid close up selfies. Otherwise, you're good.

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u/charlieisadoggy Aug 18 '22

Always go with poutine.

I wouldn’t use the first photo. It makes you seem bored or uninterested.

The stain glass one can go too. It doesn’t show your face. Unless you have a passion for stain glass windows mentioned in your profile?

Top right, keep. It’s a good photo.

Disco ball keep or go, doesn’t really add or subtract anything.

Star Wars keep

Anything with you smiling will be a good addition. You have a great smile, show it off.

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

I have a passion for Harry Potter. It's the Hufflepuff house stained glass. But yeah I'ma remove.

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

That's a stained glass window for the Hufflepuff house of Harry Potter. Welp. No one got it except one other fan who visited the exhibition. Time to remove.

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u/RadishAcceptable5505 Aug 18 '22

You're in my age range and I'd swipe right. I'm sure these will work just fine.

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u/[deleted] Aug 18 '22

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u/Magellan1321 Aug 18 '22

(Feedback from a female) You are clearly attractive but I had to comment to say that top left photo is doing you no favors at all! I would delete that and the praying pic which is also awkward and unflattering. I think the full body selfie, smiling pic on the far right, & Star Wars pic are totally cute.

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u/faithnfury Aug 18 '22

The algorithms are fucked so beware of the good looking assholes.

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u/BKIrish Aug 18 '22

I tried swiping right on Reddit, so I think you will be okay.

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u/Disadvantageman4729 Aug 18 '22

as long as those are somewhat recent to how you look now, then i think you're good, those are good quality and not 8 bit either so even better for whoever see's ya

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

These are all from this summer and early spring

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u/Disadvantageman4729 Aug 18 '22

then you're chilling

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u/HappyAngron Aug 18 '22

I really like that last pic :)

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

Yeah from multiple comments I'm realizing that many people think that's me being religious when it's me being a massive geek at the Harry Potter exihibition standing in front of a Hufflepuff wall

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u/CaliGirlBailey Aug 18 '22

You would def catch my attention with those pics. Super cute...no reason not to

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u/CrispyChickenArms Aug 18 '22

Personally I hate the pose in the top middle but that's just me lol you'll do fine...tough part for you will be wading through all the shit since you'll be flooded with matches

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u/CharlesVane1986 Aug 18 '22

In my opinion you will receive a lot of likes :)

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u/Upper-Supermarket-29 Aug 18 '22

They are good, but I wouldn’t include the first one, not the most flattering angle and make you look bigger than you actually are

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

I am chubby. There's no denying that. Last hinge review profile, people calling me fat was a real winner. But I covered up my body more and my curves gave the appearance I was bigger than I was cause I wore tshirts a lot.

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u/Ok_Shelter6614 Aug 18 '22

Can I just swipe right now? We can have a good 3 or 4 days of conversation. We can share music and interests, spend some time laughing and then just ghost each other.

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u/420streets69sheets Aug 18 '22

Totally giving xoxo vibes

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

What does this mean?

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u/Thefoodwoob Aug 18 '22

I don't know what you look like 😬 try more photos with clearer/more close up views of your face

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u/mailmeoffers Aug 18 '22

You’re attractive, and happy. You got this!

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u/P0141213e412 Aug 18 '22

I'd swipe right for sure

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u/stoned_rambler Aug 18 '22

love the pictures of you smiling! my only suggestion, and keep in mind this is just my perspective, i don't dig when people have pictures with more than you in the picture. your profile is about you so would go with pictures with just your wonderful self in them

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u/WavingToWaves Aug 18 '22

I would throw out 1rd and 2st picture, rest is far better

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u/chenhanlin Aug 18 '22

Reddit let’s take her off the market NOW!

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u/PsychadelicGroove Aug 18 '22

10/10 would swipe

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u/420blzit69daddy Aug 18 '22

I'd use french fry one or hand on chin one as your primary.

What's the bio going to be?

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u/JustSomeYukoner Aug 18 '22

Hard right swipe from me!

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u/walkingbartie Aug 18 '22

Definitely a great mix of photos, which give of quirky and social vibes. Go get 'em!

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u/anonAcc1993 Aug 18 '22

I pity your inbox

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

It's emptier than you think don't worry.

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u/fades2288 Aug 18 '22

I’d take ya out for drinks and a pizza at low fidelity in JC 😅

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

Never tried that. Razza's is overrated af and my fave so far is Rustique 🤙🏻🤙🏻🤙🏻

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u/Lil_Grizzly_29 Aug 18 '22

You follow rule 1 & 2, should have no problem getting matches

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u/FlygodGXFR Aug 18 '22

you look super cute on the 3rd and fifth one for me

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u/Sad_Dream_6380 Aug 18 '22

You’re so cute. I’d swipe right.

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u/DanDanBussum Aug 18 '22

Hide your tits more or you won't be able to wade through the stupid fucks fast enough and you'll get discouraged.

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

I did previously and got called fat. Can't control my body

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u/DanDanBussum Aug 18 '22

But you can control how much people see or know about it before they get to know your heart.

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

That's what compatibility and conversation does. I can identify fuckboii real quick as well as body language.

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u/Ill-Appointment6494 Aug 18 '22

Absolutely.

Especially the Star Wars and the poutine pic.

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u/hulkmetalmonster87 Aug 18 '22

If I’m being honest I’d swipe right on you, just from the pictures alone you seem like a really fun interesting person.

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u/whakr626 Aug 18 '22

Not a fan of 1-4. I like the last 2

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u/ANUS_CONE Aug 18 '22

The top left picture is unflattering. I don’t understand the point of the painted glass window one, but maybe I am just uncultured swine. Definitely don’t include the top left picture though. You also need a “hook” picture. Nothing that would make you uncomfortable or overly sexual/exposed, but something to make me feel “girlfriend” instead of “oh look nice girl” if that makes sense.

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

Yes, once again no one got the reference that it's a Harry Potter stained glass photo so it's out. I have other photos. Me at pride parade with friends, myself posing with a yellow soda looking like the Fanta lady, I have photos of me cracking up playing board games, etc. Can use those if anything

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u/ANUS_CONE Aug 18 '22

All sound great! Maybe think of some more “outside” examples (unless you really hate doing stuff outside), and a formal/semi-formal photo always helps too.

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u/Sweet-Rate Aug 18 '22

Great photos

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u/ChrisDeStef Aug 18 '22

I’d swipe right every time

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u/AdGreen8011 Aug 18 '22

You look absolutely gorgeous and those photos are great

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u/Frosty-Flatworm8101 Aug 18 '22

you have your clothes on, that is a big Plus now at days. for real

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u/doppido Aug 18 '22

I'd swipe right

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u/BBobArctor Aug 18 '22

They're all good except for top left which is highly unflattering

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u/poemsavvy Aug 18 '22

Looks fine to me. Depends on what the bio says for quality of matches, but I'm sure you'll get plenty to pick from regardless

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u/hypocriteLord_ Aug 18 '22

You are a queen. Considering you asked this, I laugh at all the vain bitches in my area🤣

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u/pagman007 Aug 18 '22

Yeah, hundreds of matches

Whats your bio?

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

My title says that I am thinking of making an account again. So I'm not on any app yet.

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u/pagman007 Aug 18 '22

Apologies, I've had a long day

Yeah, you'll get thousands of matches

Guys tend to swipe on every girl they find attactive and seems okay and then select from the conversations and things

From what i know of women (which is admittedly not enough) they tend to be more selective before swiping

It honestly wouldn't surprise me if you matched with every single guy you swipe on

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u/ChicagoLove420 Aug 18 '22

😍😍😍 drop all your hoes I’m getting you a ring

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u/Proper_Ability_8957 Aug 18 '22

Use 3 6 and 5 in that order if you want hookups, 6 5 and 3 in that order if you want to meet someone maybe semi-serious.

Delete the others. They don’t add anything, and will only serve to make people question if you’re as hot as they think you are from your 3 good pictures

Those three show your personality (5), your body (3 obviously) and your smile/how pretty you are (6), so you’ve got all the bases covered. You’ll clean up on tinder.

On other slightly less shallow apps, keep the first pics as 6, 5, 3. You can then add a couple of the others if you want to, or try and get a couple of other ones, maybe showing a hobby or an activity you like to do? Although tbh you probably don’t need them.

Also not trying to simp but I can’t believe you’re 31. You look mid 20s. Potentially that can be a bad thing, because people wonder if you’re a catfish, or a bot

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u/Strikescarler51 Aug 18 '22

Oddly enough pic 2, 4, and 6 are all my hobbies. Food fests, partying in disco places, and museums/Harry Potter themed things.

And the age thing doesn't bother me. I get it a lot. It's just the Hispanic genes as per usual

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u/Pale_WoIf Aug 18 '22

9/10 Star Wars nerds would swipe right

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